Braiding My Daughter's Hair This is what we waited for: a doll of flesh and blood to rearrange, recreate, manipulate. Interweaving silken strands my palms come alive with memories performing an ancient ritual. The head on the other end is unaware of her story-- thinks it's just a hairdo. Rhoda, whose hair hung loose tugs harshly at my scalp impatient with tangles and knots. Behind her stands the ghost of Lily who died too young to teach the art of braiding. Bema looms behind the ghost magnificent silver braids wound round and round her head. This is what we waited for: my fingers fly, over and through, gratified.